"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good sex is hard to walk away from....

NewMan

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And I'm talking about really good sex, with the kind of woman who's always open and available....

Even though you know it's the right thing to do, walking away can be tough.

I'm doing it now, and even though it's the right thing, when I get that phone call, I can feel my little man tugging away at me.

Whooooa damn.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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speed dawg

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Just go beat off.

Seriously.
 

Victory Unlimited

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Yo NEWMAN,

"ANYTHING that you can't say NO to, is your MASTER. And YOU are it's SLAVE".


Yes, read and re-read this quote of mine that Sergeant SPEED DAWG has listed in his signature, meditate on it, then think about either the negative effects that NOT mastering your body may have on you in the long run.

Many fortunes, many freedoms, many futures have been lost by men who allow themselves to be driven by their sexual desires as much as some women allow themselves to be driven by their emotional whims.

Live FREE. Spend your time wisely, still enjoying the emotions and the sex of the moment, but ONLY as long as you keep a logical "eye" looking toward the future.

No one knows what the future holds, but there are many men who would trade almost anything if they could "take back" one or two "ill-advised" sexual maneuvers--------because of the ADVERSE consequences that they are experiencing NOW.

You've been on here long enough to have read the stories of the BPD Chicks, the stalkers, the supposed "friends with benefits" situations that have ended very badly, the emotional devastation that has resulted from guys pompously "thinking" they were too macho to get hooked on sex with the WRONG kinds of women, the divorces that resulted from men hooking up with chicks because the ONLY thing they had going for them was their "sexiness", etc. etc., etc.

Sure, continue to explore. Continue to take risks----but let them be CALCULATED ones. The God-given capacity for reason, logic, and foresight that you have as a man arms you with a "weapon" of self-protection that many foolishly rarely use.

Don't become a statistic.

Don't join in their number.

Yes it's true-----even SEX is something that a man can use and/or experience for his own greater, and FUTURE benefit. So choose to continue to use it wisely.

Is this NOT part of what it means for a man to be a MATURE man?

YEARS from now, let the stories that you tell your friends, your family, your kids, etc. be stories that have NOTHING to do with the HELL that you have had to suffer because of how you "one day" chose to thoughtlessly and unfortunately let your DIKK be your guide-------as opposed to your holistically-minded "good sense".

Or to put it another way-----realize that there is benefit in KNOWING that not every chick DESERVES your dikk, soldier. And that's the TRUTH.

Much Respect, my man. And...


...Soldier on.
 

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Its definitely a natural narcotic. AFCism can be found wherever there is an addiction.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Great post Victory - and of course you are very very right!!!!

The crazy ones are the best.

Time for a cold shower and to rub one out ;)

but seriously, I'm not planning on caving, just this morning it hit me and the urge was there.
 

Mr. Me

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Good sex is hard to walk away from
It makes me limp.

God almighty, sometimes I'm so f@ckin' extraordinarily witty.
 
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