The only answer and the one that should have happened before you even got to a relationship stage with her is to walk away.I've dealt with it by being an ******* back at her and it didn't work.
Then I did the second one, partially, because I was so pissed. It didn't take long before she got her mojo back and started acting up again.
Before I got sexlife back on track, I waited for 3 (three) months to see if she initiates but no result. Seems to me like I have to do all the work. She likes it, but I'd like for her to say she wants it once in a while.
I'm still reading NMMNG and figurig stuff out.
I've been through so much ****, that it's hard for me to tell her I love her. Maybe "the thrill is gone".