Good sex, disrespectful wife and child

[ThisIsSparta]

Also you are now revealing info where I can see how your wife is not satisfied with - well - you.
Her reaction is not constructive, it's destructive. She definitely tells you "I'm not content with your state of being, please be/do ..." when she calls you "idiot". It's an act of desperation. I'm not saying it's an intelligent act though.
Consider how you can make your life more satisfying (for yourself). Reach out to people who are helpful.

Thats what a counselor would say.

And the translation is: "well its not nice from your wife to say it that way, but it is true, you are the azzhole for putting the blame on this helpless women in her desperation to make you into the better man that she deserves."

Fvck that!

Women behaving like cvnts is not them being raw diamonds in need to be rescued by captain save a ho.
What you see is what you get and you are not going to change their character by buying into the happy wife/happy life narrative.

 

[SpartanWarrior77]

Yeah, I've been on the berge of divorcing for some tine, and I brought it up to her.


Well, if I was aware of all that I have read these past years, before I would have met her, my wife would have been a girl that I would have dumped and never looked back on. Unfortunately for me, our child loves both of us, and that's the ONLY thing that has kept me so far from not walking. I have to really weigh the benefits and disatvantages from walking. I WILL consult a lawyer, because it's too damn hard FOR ME to learn all this **** and apply it to a relationship that, in my experience, has gone too far for me to even consider to work on. It's tiring and frustrating as hell.

Screw it, the kid will get over it hopefully. Im a child of divorce like many of you here. I forgave my parents when I became mature but in the beginning, it was a tough childhood not having dad around.

 

[MtmVaott]

Thats what a counselor would say.

And the translation is: "well its not nice from your wife to say it that way, but it is true, you are the azzhole for putting the blame on this helpless women in her desperation to make you into the better man that she deserves."

Well, I think OP is already too much into RP and aversion towards his wife that my advice matters to him.
But generally, it's better to see if a change in your behaviour will change the situation before just nuking everything and burning bridges.

Women behaving like cvnts is not them being raw diamonds in need to be rescued by captain save a ho.
What you see is what you get and you are not going to change their character by buying into the happy wife/happy life narrative.

Yeah that's obvious for me and what I wrote is not an appeal to subordinate.

 

[Epimanes]

Reminds me of the Bible verse .... I think in proverbs where it says... "it's better to sleep outside on the corner of your roof in a rain storm than live with a disrespectful and nagging wife"


There is a few verses that talk about that....

A calm approach with some consequences are in order.... good luck.