Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Good read on the Jerk vs. Nice guy, check it out.

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What equals dog shyt though. Insults? Hitting them? Threatening to kill them?

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Women are weird fukking people. They love a combination of as$holism, arrogance, aloofness, and a daring lifestyle. If I ask a woman to meet me at a lounge for a drink, she flakes. If she is already out on the town, and drunk as hell, and I am there with another woman, all of a sudden she wants me. Fukking looney toons if you ask me.
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I do agree with this. I wonder if it's really being a cruel bastard though.
 
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JackPrescott said:
This article was interesting, but definitley written by a woman who has been fondled by a jerk and left hanging as she was falling for his ass.

Women love to be treated like dogs*hit. Theres no three ways about that. They love jerks, because we can tend to be assertive, and take control, and they seem to like that. The times in dating when I have been a "nice guy" I have instantly lost the woman sexually to another man. The other times when I have been a complete a$$hole, she has fallen for me, or at least put out.

I have tired of using romance. Flowers and poetry only work in movies starring J-Lo and Matthew Moganahey. The last woman I bought flowers for almost started running away from me, and the last woman I used some simple poetry on thought I was a crackhead.

Women are weird fukking people. They love a combination of as$holism, arrogance, aloofness, and a daring lifestyle. If I ask a woman to meet me at a lounge for a drink, she flakes. If she is already out on the town, and drunk as hell, and I am there with another woman, all of a sudden she wants me. Fukking looney toons if you ask me.
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Sorry mate, you got that all wrong. Its all about natural selection.


If you are an 8 and you are dating a '10', (and you are an average joe from a personality perspective) chances are you will be all 'nicey' with the girl in question. However if you are a 9, and the girl is an 8, chances are you will be trying to dump the girl after you have sex with her.

And thats how 'nice guy', 'bad boy' behaviours come out.

And last, if you are a 9 and a nice guy by heart - you will get married. :rolleyes:
 
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Lets be realistic - 7s dont go about selecting between 8s and 9s. They are 7 for a reason - to get 7s and under. :yes:
 
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DonJaunStupidity said:
If you are an 8 and you are dating a '10', (and you are an average joe from a personality perspective) chances are you will be all 'nicey' with the girl in question. However if you are a 9, and the girl is an 8, chances are you will be trying to dump the girl after you have sex with her.

And thats how 'nice guy', 'bad boy' behaviours come out.

And last, if you are a 9 and a nice guy by heart - you will get married.
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You know, I have to say I see some truth to this. I have a friend who tried the slow and steady "friendship" route to get a girl, which we all know is the worst. I cringed at some of the behavior he displayed toward her, he is probably a 5 and she's a 7.

However, he hooked up with a woman who is literally twice his senior (desperation) and he treats her the way a DJ should, it just comes out naturally because of his value in comparison to hers. It really is hard to change your behavior "consciously" if you feel a particular woman has more value than yourself, in general.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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JackPrescott said:
Women love to be treated like dogs*hit. Theres no three ways about that.
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No, they want someone to be their leader. There is a difference.
 
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JackPrescott said:
7's can get 9s and 10s if dey gots enough game, and enough meat hangin' betwix dey legs, som'n you wouldnt know nuthin' bout.
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Well your game is definitely not in your English or in your personality. Which only brings the question of your meat - but anybody can brag about meat over the internet.

Sorry mate, you seem too young to be posting in the mature men part. How old are you? 15?
 
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Tazman said:
You know, I have to say I see some truth to this. I have a friend who tried the slow and steady "friendship" route to get a girl, which we all know is the worst. I cringed at some of the behavior he displayed toward her, he is probably a 5 and she's a 7.

However, he hooked up with a woman who is literally twice his senior (desperation) and he treats her the way a DJ should, it just comes out naturally because of his value in comparison to hers. It really is hard to change your behavior "consciously" if you feel a particular woman has more value than yourself, in general.
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Exactly. Thats the whole point.
 
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