"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good problem to have (2 dates the same night)

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So I have two dates planned for the same night.

I texted #1 for date, no response after 1.5 days.
I texted #2 for date, responds yes and "can't wait to see you" a few hours later.

Then - #1 texts "hi sorry! yes i've been thinking about you!"

Problem: I need to cancel one of them. Is there any right way to flake while maintaining her IL? I'm thinking of telling the one that took a while to text back (#2) something like "you're too slow! i already made plans! we'll have to do another time."

Technically that would be the truth anyway.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Who Dares Win

Who Dares Win

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The one who toke 1.5 days to reply is either no interested in you, considering you after guy A flaked her and has a flake coefficient which is sky high.

Take the entusiastic girl with no doubt, actually there is no reason for you to even ask this question, wheter you talk about who deserves you the most or who is the surest thing.

Remember generally that an interested girl wont take too much to agree and will show happiness to see you, while an low interest girl takes time, use ****y/short lines and is very likely to flake once she got her ego boost.
 
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Interesting. She said yes though, so do I just cancel on her or tell her that I made other plans because she took so long?
 
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Interesting. She said yes though, so do I just cancel on her or tell her that I made other plans because she took so long?
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If I were you I would simply cancel without giving any further explanation, first you want to make it clear that you are not eating from her hand so she is not supposed to let you wait 1.5days to reply to a text, second you own her no explanation after her sh1tty behaviour.

Also she replied "I've been thinking about you" she didnt replied "lets go somewhere glad you called", dont reward low interest and unpolite behaviours with entusiasm.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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#2 seems obvious. She's down.

But clearly you're more interested in #1 (either b/c she's hotter, she's not making things as easy or both)
 
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I wouldn't cancel, I would reschedule/suggest another night the same week. Always keep 2 in the kitty. Definitely go with #2 on the original night tho - my 2 cents.
 
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