"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DaneB

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I'm 25 years old and I'm dating this beautiful girl who is 19. I have never had a girlfriend and she knows that. I had never held hands with a girl, kissed a girl (let alone make out). Well she has initiated every move along the way. Once she has initiated it, I haven't been afraid to continue it. Tonight she was leaning against me and I kissed her on the cheek. Then she got on me and started making out with me. It really turns me on that she is able to make these moves and she is empowering physically. Should I just consider myself lucky, or am I going down a road that I don't want to go down? She really thinks that I'm cute because I'm so "innocent". Here's a couple of questions for you guys...

1. Should I just consider myself extremely lucky to be in this situation?
2. Could she leave me because I haven't had the balls to initiate anything?
3. Or since she has been making all the moves, does this leave her with a lot more power in the relationship?

What do you guys think? If there is a problem, how do you think I should go about fixing it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tell her to stop kissing you. It's not good she wants to sleep with you. You have to stop getting action NOW, for your own good and the good of all the people on this site!
 
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You're lucky! You're lucky! I think you should invite her over and have mad, wild monkey sex for HOURS. What are you waiting for? She's obviously in to you. You're 25 and have a lovely girl in your arms....GET ON WITH IT FOR GOD'S SAKE!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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