"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good Or Could It Really Be Bad?

DaneB

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I'm 25 years old and I'm dating this beautiful girl who is 19. I have never had a girlfriend and she knows that. I had never held hands with a girl, kissed a girl (let alone make out). Well she has initiated every move along the way. Once she has initiated it, I haven't been afraid to continue it. Tonight she was leaning against me and I kissed her on the cheek. Then she got on me and started making out with me. It really turns me on that she is able to make these moves and she is empowering physically. Should I just consider myself lucky, or am I going down a road that I don't want to go down? She really thinks that I'm cute because I'm so "innocent". Here's a couple of questions for you guys...

1. Should I just consider myself extremely lucky to be in this situation?
2. Could she leave me because I haven't had the balls to initiate anything?
3. Or since she has been making all the moves, does this leave her with a lot more power in the relationship?

What do you guys think? If there is a problem, how do you think I should go about fixing it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DonJuan11

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Tell her to stop kissing you. It's not good she wants to sleep with you. You have to stop getting action NOW, for your own good and the good of all the people on this site!
 

WaterTiger

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You're lucky! You're lucky! I think you should invite her over and have mad, wild monkey sex for HOURS. What are you waiting for? She's obviously in to you. You're 25 and have a lovely girl in your arms....GET ON WITH IT FOR GOD'S SAKE!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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