"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DaneB

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I'm 25 years old and I'm dating this beautiful girl who is 19. I have never had a girlfriend and she knows that. I had never held hands with a girl, kissed a girl (let alone make out). Well she has initiated every move along the way. Once she has initiated it, I haven't been afraid to continue it. Tonight she was leaning against me and I kissed her on the cheek. Then she got on me and started making out with me. It really turns me on that she is able to make these moves and she is empowering physically. Should I just consider myself lucky, or am I going down a road that I don't want to go down? She really thinks that I'm cute because I'm so "innocent". Here's a couple of questions for you guys...

1. Should I just consider myself extremely lucky to be in this situation?
2. Could she leave me because I haven't had the balls to initiate anything?
3. Or since she has been making all the moves, does this leave her with a lot more power in the relationship?

What do you guys think? If there is a problem, how do you think I should go about fixing it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonJuan11

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Tell her to stop kissing you. It's not good she wants to sleep with you. You have to stop getting action NOW, for your own good and the good of all the people on this site!
 
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You're lucky! You're lucky! I think you should invite her over and have mad, wild monkey sex for HOURS. What are you waiting for? She's obviously in to you. You're 25 and have a lovely girl in your arms....GET ON WITH IT FOR GOD'S SAKE!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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