"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Good Or Could It Really Be Bad?

DaneB

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I'm 25 years old and I'm dating this beautiful girl who is 19. I have never had a girlfriend and she knows that. I had never held hands with a girl, kissed a girl (let alone make out). Well she has initiated every move along the way. Once she has initiated it, I haven't been afraid to continue it. Tonight she was leaning against me and I kissed her on the cheek. Then she got on me and started making out with me. It really turns me on that she is able to make these moves and she is empowering physically. Should I just consider myself lucky, or am I going down a road that I don't want to go down? She really thinks that I'm cute because I'm so "innocent". Here's a couple of questions for you guys...

1. Should I just consider myself extremely lucky to be in this situation?
2. Could she leave me because I haven't had the balls to initiate anything?
3. Or since she has been making all the moves, does this leave her with a lot more power in the relationship?

What do you guys think? If there is a problem, how do you think I should go about fixing it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DonJuan11

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Tell her to stop kissing you. It's not good she wants to sleep with you. You have to stop getting action NOW, for your own good and the good of all the people on this site!
 

WaterTiger

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You're lucky! You're lucky! I think you should invite her over and have mad, wild monkey sex for HOURS. What are you waiting for? She's obviously in to you. You're 25 and have a lovely girl in your arms....GET ON WITH IT FOR GOD'S SAKE!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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