"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Good or Bad? Doing and acting "CUTE"

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You know..if you do and act in a "CUTE" way where girls just say aww so cute. Is that really mean that it's not attracive? Whats the deal with this?

Once in a while when I'll do a sweet thing for a girl like give her a call just to say goodnite, and goolduck on a test the next morning they'll do the whole aww so cute/sweet.

Good, Bad, neither?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is it diffrent if the girl is your girlfreind for almost 4 months (my situation)

I agree its usually bad, UNLESS it is your girlfriend or a LTR and even then...SOMTIMES.. still think it's bad in that situation?
 

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Just read you last post. Don't ever go overboard (like calling her EVERY NIGHT). Make her wait and hope for the sweet things. Make her earn them. But don't neglect them either.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ummmm

come on guys get real.

ive had plenty of girls tell me I am cute or that is so cute..and I get fycked by them.

if your gf calls you cute its so bad..I mean she is fycking you, calling you, caring for you.

GOD FORBID!

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
ummmm

come on guys get real.

ive had plenty of girls tell me I am cute or that is so cute..and I get fycked by them.

if your gf calls you cute its so bad..I mean she is fycking you, calling you, caring for you.

GOD FORBID!

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
LOL. Agreed,

A lot of you are too obsessed with the whole nice guy vs. jerk mentality. Life is not as black and white as you think.
 

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Umm, there is nothing wrong with being called cute. All the girls who I've ever gotten with (or given me signals) have called me cute at one point or another. It just depends on the context. If, in the middle of a conversation, a girl calls you "cute", it's usually a GOOD thing. Just don't go overboard and try to act cute, because then she will think of you as an adorable child or little brother.

... and most of all, don't overanalyze this kind of stuff.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You want to be seen as cute? Cute like a castrated, declawed pillow?... i mean CAT?

Are you a man? Or some little kid?


Need a diaper? Awwww look at the cute baby. Do you want a lolly? Baby want a lolly? Come get the lolly baby...... and so on.
 
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LOL

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Yeah you probly are going to hell. **** that. I'll join you.
 
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