"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Good or Bad? Doing and acting "CUTE"

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You know..if you do and act in a "CUTE" way where girls just say aww so cute. Is that really mean that it's not attracive? Whats the deal with this?

Once in a while when I'll do a sweet thing for a girl like give her a call just to say goodnite, and goolduck on a test the next morning they'll do the whole aww so cute/sweet.

Good, Bad, neither?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is it diffrent if the girl is your girlfreind for almost 4 months (my situation)

I agree its usually bad, UNLESS it is your girlfriend or a LTR and even then...SOMTIMES.. still think it's bad in that situation?
 
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Just read you last post. Don't ever go overboard (like calling her EVERY NIGHT). Make her wait and hope for the sweet things. Make her earn them. But don't neglect them either.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ummmm

come on guys get real.

ive had plenty of girls tell me I am cute or that is so cute..and I get fycked by them.

if your gf calls you cute its so bad..I mean she is fycking you, calling you, caring for you.

GOD FORBID!

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
ummmm

come on guys get real.

ive had plenty of girls tell me I am cute or that is so cute..and I get fycked by them.

if your gf calls you cute its so bad..I mean she is fycking you, calling you, caring for you.

GOD FORBID!

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
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LOL. Agreed,

A lot of you are too obsessed with the whole nice guy vs. jerk mentality. Life is not as black and white as you think.
 
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Umm, there is nothing wrong with being called cute. All the girls who I've ever gotten with (or given me signals) have called me cute at one point or another. It just depends on the context. If, in the middle of a conversation, a girl calls you "cute", it's usually a GOOD thing. Just don't go overboard and try to act cute, because then she will think of you as an adorable child or little brother.

... and most of all, don't overanalyze this kind of stuff.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You want to be seen as cute? Cute like a castrated, declawed pillow?... i mean CAT?

Are you a man? Or some little kid?


Need a diaper? Awwww look at the cute baby. Do you want a lolly? Baby want a lolly? Come get the lolly baby...... and so on.
 
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LOL

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Yeah you probly are going to hell. **** that. I'll join you.
 
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