"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good or Bad? Doing and acting "CUTE"

shark

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You know..if you do and act in a "CUTE" way where girls just say aww so cute. Is that really mean that it's not attracive? Whats the deal with this?

Once in a while when I'll do a sweet thing for a girl like give her a call just to say goodnite, and goolduck on a test the next morning they'll do the whole aww so cute/sweet.

Good, Bad, neither?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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shark

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Is it diffrent if the girl is your girlfreind for almost 4 months (my situation)

I agree its usually bad, UNLESS it is your girlfriend or a LTR and even then...SOMTIMES.. still think it's bad in that situation?
 

Hellboy

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Just read you last post. Don't ever go overboard (like calling her EVERY NIGHT). Make her wait and hope for the sweet things. Make her earn them. But don't neglect them either.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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frivolousz21

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ummmm

come on guys get real.

ive had plenty of girls tell me I am cute or that is so cute..and I get fycked by them.

if your gf calls you cute its so bad..I mean she is fycking you, calling you, caring for you.

GOD FORBID!

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
ummmm

come on guys get real.

ive had plenty of girls tell me I am cute or that is so cute..and I get fycked by them.

if your gf calls you cute its so bad..I mean she is fycking you, calling you, caring for you.

GOD FORBID!

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
LOL. Agreed,

A lot of you are too obsessed with the whole nice guy vs. jerk mentality. Life is not as black and white as you think.
 

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Umm, there is nothing wrong with being called cute. All the girls who I've ever gotten with (or given me signals) have called me cute at one point or another. It just depends on the context. If, in the middle of a conversation, a girl calls you "cute", it's usually a GOOD thing. Just don't go overboard and try to act cute, because then she will think of you as an adorable child or little brother.

... and most of all, don't overanalyze this kind of stuff.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You want to be seen as cute? Cute like a castrated, declawed pillow?... i mean CAT?

Are you a man? Or some little kid?


Need a diaper? Awwww look at the cute baby. Do you want a lolly? Baby want a lolly? Come get the lolly baby...... and so on.
 
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LOL

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Yeah you probly are going to hell. **** that. I'll join you.
 
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