"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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JackBauer24

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First, let me just say that if it doesn't work out and I don't get a message back, I'm not losing any sleep over it.

I found a girl on myspace who was voted "most popular" in high school and "best looking" and a bunch of other sh*t. I never thought she was anything great, above average looking and pretty but nothing you can't find anywhere else.

Still feel the same way...a solid 7 or 8. So I message her and say "You look familiar, do I know you?" Coming from a guy that was the anti-thesis of her in high school (made fun of, harassed, couldn't get a fat girl if I wanted to based on being "unpopular" and having a bad reputation) this, in my opinion, will come as a shock to her. She'd probably expect someone like me to be like "Oh, you're so hot."

Granted, this isn't the same as approaching a girl in person, but the old me would have overanalyzed the situation to death and my heart would have been racing and I would have ended up not sending the message to avoid coming off as a "weirdo."

Case in point, goes for anything in life but especially women, online or offline, there really is nothing to lose. 9 times out of 10 she isn't anything special.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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That would be confident comment. A neg hit is, a negative hit, you tell her something negative.

"So . . . you're still popular 10 years after. . . on an internet board"
 
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"That would be confident comment. A neg hit is, a negative hit, you tell her something negative."

Ok, I see what you're saying.

"So . . . you're still popular 10 years after. . . on an internet board"

LOL, priceless.
 
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I'd say something along the lines of...

"Hey, Mrs. Universe! Looking damn sexy. Just tell me when you wanna hook up. If you behave I might even have some great sex with you."

You said you didn't care about the outcome.

Send this to her and tell us what happened.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"9 times out of 10 she isn't anything special."

10 times out of 10 -just remember that, doesn't seem like you believe it fully
 
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well 10 out of 10 if you're only going by looks. 9 out of 10 if you like her looks and know and like her as a person.
 
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