"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First, let me just say that if it doesn't work out and I don't get a message back, I'm not losing any sleep over it.

I found a girl on myspace who was voted "most popular" in high school and "best looking" and a bunch of other sh*t. I never thought she was anything great, above average looking and pretty but nothing you can't find anywhere else.

Still feel the same way...a solid 7 or 8. So I message her and say "You look familiar, do I know you?" Coming from a guy that was the anti-thesis of her in high school (made fun of, harassed, couldn't get a fat girl if I wanted to based on being "unpopular" and having a bad reputation) this, in my opinion, will come as a shock to her. She'd probably expect someone like me to be like "Oh, you're so hot."

Granted, this isn't the same as approaching a girl in person, but the old me would have overanalyzed the situation to death and my heart would have been racing and I would have ended up not sending the message to avoid coming off as a "weirdo."

Case in point, goes for anything in life but especially women, online or offline, there really is nothing to lose. 9 times out of 10 she isn't anything special.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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That would be confident comment. A neg hit is, a negative hit, you tell her something negative.

"So . . . you're still popular 10 years after. . . on an internet board"
 
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"That would be confident comment. A neg hit is, a negative hit, you tell her something negative."

Ok, I see what you're saying.

"So . . . you're still popular 10 years after. . . on an internet board"

LOL, priceless.
 
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I'd say something along the lines of...

"Hey, Mrs. Universe! Looking damn sexy. Just tell me when you wanna hook up. If you behave I might even have some great sex with you."

You said you didn't care about the outcome.

Send this to her and tell us what happened.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"9 times out of 10 she isn't anything special."

10 times out of 10 -just remember that, doesn't seem like you believe it fully
 
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well 10 out of 10 if you're only going by looks. 9 out of 10 if you like her looks and know and like her as a person.
 
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