"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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JackBauer24

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First, let me just say that if it doesn't work out and I don't get a message back, I'm not losing any sleep over it.

I found a girl on myspace who was voted "most popular" in high school and "best looking" and a bunch of other sh*t. I never thought she was anything great, above average looking and pretty but nothing you can't find anywhere else.

Still feel the same way...a solid 7 or 8. So I message her and say "You look familiar, do I know you?" Coming from a guy that was the anti-thesis of her in high school (made fun of, harassed, couldn't get a fat girl if I wanted to based on being "unpopular" and having a bad reputation) this, in my opinion, will come as a shock to her. She'd probably expect someone like me to be like "Oh, you're so hot."

Granted, this isn't the same as approaching a girl in person, but the old me would have overanalyzed the situation to death and my heart would have been racing and I would have ended up not sending the message to avoid coming off as a "weirdo."

Case in point, goes for anything in life but especially women, online or offline, there really is nothing to lose. 9 times out of 10 she isn't anything special.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That would be confident comment. A neg hit is, a negative hit, you tell her something negative.

"So . . . you're still popular 10 years after. . . on an internet board"
 
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"That would be confident comment. A neg hit is, a negative hit, you tell her something negative."

Ok, I see what you're saying.

"So . . . you're still popular 10 years after. . . on an internet board"

LOL, priceless.
 
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I'd say something along the lines of...

"Hey, Mrs. Universe! Looking damn sexy. Just tell me when you wanna hook up. If you behave I might even have some great sex with you."

You said you didn't care about the outcome.

Send this to her and tell us what happened.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"9 times out of 10 she isn't anything special."

10 times out of 10 -just remember that, doesn't seem like you believe it fully
 
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well 10 out of 10 if you're only going by looks. 9 out of 10 if you like her looks and know and like her as a person.
 
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