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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Good lower ab exercise

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Anyone here have a good exercise for the lower abs?
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hanging leg raise
Knee-tucks with a cable attached to your ankles
Hanging leg raise with a band attached to your feet
Leg raises on a decline board

Basically any type of leg raise will hit the lower abs.
 

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Colossus said:
Hanging leg raise
Knee-tucks with a cable attached to your ankles
Hanging leg raise with a band attached to your feet
Leg raises on a decline board

Basically any type of leg raise will hit the lower abs.
Why didn't I think of attaching weights to my leg? Genius!
 

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Legraises do nothing for your abs even though you might feel it in the aerea. Legraises are actualy a hip flexor exercise. Abs are actually built for stabilisation, meaning to prevent movement, and the obuliques are built also for either twisting or stabilizing.

We can also look to nature. The way we build our muscles is by mimiking natural movements and using weight to overload them. Picking up stuff, pushing away things, standing up etc. There is not a single natural movement that mimics the crunch or sit-up for the abs. Stabilization and preventing twisting of the spine (not moving) however. That is where we see the abs in action! Lets say you do a squat or a deadlift. You need strong abs to withstand movment of the spine.

So basicly keep your midsection stiff while doing ab-exercises. Here is good article http://www.tmuscle.com/free_online_article/sports_body_training_performance/best_of_abs
 

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