"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Good looks but personality hurting me help

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Dman101

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Guys I need some advice. I'm 6'4 and very good looking, but I dont pull as many girls as i should because of anxiety and personality issues. I've met over 100 girls from online in person, and have had success with this, but its very inconsistant and I always lose the girl after a while. lately I'm in a huge rut feeling pretty anti social and anxious, so I'm not pursuing the women that i have their numbas already because of this. I'm pretty shy normally at work and in life, but at times Ive been able to turn into a ****y funny character but i havent had this for a while. please help
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what kind of anxiety or personality issues do you have?

be fun and outgoing all the time. always be sociable. looks are a good thing to have but you'll never keep the girl. a girl gets in a relationship with you EMOTIONALLY, not VISUALLY
 
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PrettyBoyA said:
what kind of anxiety or personality issues do you have?

be fun and outgoing all the time. always be sociable. looks are a good thing to have but you'll never keep the girl. a girl gets in a relationship with you EMOTIONALLY, not VISUALLY
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