"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good looks but personality hurting me help

Dman101

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Guys I need some advice. I'm 6'4 and very good looking, but I dont pull as many girls as i should because of anxiety and personality issues. I've met over 100 girls from online in person, and have had success with this, but its very inconsistant and I always lose the girl after a while. lately I'm in a huge rut feeling pretty anti social and anxious, so I'm not pursuing the women that i have their numbas already because of this. I'm pretty shy normally at work and in life, but at times Ive been able to turn into a ****y funny character but i havent had this for a while. please help
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PrettyBoyA

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what kind of anxiety or personality issues do you have?

be fun and outgoing all the time. always be sociable. looks are a good thing to have but you'll never keep the girl. a girl gets in a relationship with you EMOTIONALLY, not VISUALLY
 

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PrettyBoyA said:
what kind of anxiety or personality issues do you have?

be fun and outgoing all the time. always be sociable. looks are a good thing to have but you'll never keep the girl. a girl gets in a relationship with you EMOTIONALLY, not VISUALLY
Props.
 
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