"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Good looks but personality hurting me help

Dman101

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Guys I need some advice. I'm 6'4 and very good looking, but I dont pull as many girls as i should because of anxiety and personality issues. I've met over 100 girls from online in person, and have had success with this, but its very inconsistant and I always lose the girl after a while. lately I'm in a huge rut feeling pretty anti social and anxious, so I'm not pursuing the women that i have their numbas already because of this. I'm pretty shy normally at work and in life, but at times Ive been able to turn into a ****y funny character but i havent had this for a while. please help
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PrettyBoyA

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what kind of anxiety or personality issues do you have?

be fun and outgoing all the time. always be sociable. looks are a good thing to have but you'll never keep the girl. a girl gets in a relationship with you EMOTIONALLY, not VISUALLY
 

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PrettyBoyA said:
what kind of anxiety or personality issues do you have?

be fun and outgoing all the time. always be sociable. looks are a good thing to have but you'll never keep the girl. a girl gets in a relationship with you EMOTIONALLY, not VISUALLY
Props.
 
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