"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good looking guy dumped by HB7?

DJnoob

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Ok got a questino for you good looking guys with nice bods here..So, you've gone out with good looking girls.. lets say hb8s and 9s here but i was wondering if you have been dumped by a less beautiful girl by 7s? And did you loose confidence?

I know someone will say "oh, id never go for a 7 anyway.. why should i?"

anyway, please dont troll around
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jariel

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Yes, I have been dumped by a 7 and a 6 back when I was shy and insecure. They still found me physically attractive, but my insecure, controlling and supplicating personality killed their attraction. One of the girls even told me this directly (which I now appreciate).

I even got rejected by a fat chick a couple of years ago because I was "too pretty" for her tastes.
 

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Jariel said:
Yes, I have been dumped by a 7 and a 6 back when I was shy and insecure. They still found me physically attractive, but my insecure, controlling and supplicating personality killed their attraction. One of the girls even told me this directly (which I now appreciate).

I even got rejected by a fat chick a couple of years ago because I was "too pretty" for her tastes.
Fvck me dead have you started single a post in the last few months which doesnt tell us all how hot you are?

Your worse than a teenage chick desperately trying to qualify herself.

Keep it up bozo.
 

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I am guilty of talking about how hot I am too (Or at least how hot I "think" I am)... But I at least have pictures to back up my claims :p
 

Jariel

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Fvck me dead have you started single a post in the last few months which doesnt tell us all how hot you are?

Your worse than a teenage chick desperately trying to qualify herself.

Keep it up bozo.
Look at the title of the thread. The guy wanted to know if a good looking guy had been dumped by a HB7. I'm a good looking guy, I have been dumped by a HB7 so that's why I answered this post.

I've also gathered from DJNoobs posts that he is very insecure about his looks and that it's his insecurity and NOT his looks that are causing his issues with women. Again, that's how it used to be for me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jariel said:
Look at the title of the thread. The guy wanted to know if a good looking guy had been dumped by a HB7. I'm a good looking guy, I have been dumped by a HB7 so that's why I answered this post.

I've also gathered from DJNoobs posts that he is very insecure about his looks and that it's his insecurity and NOT his looks that are causing his issues with women. Again, that's how it used to be for me.
Agreed (not about Jariel being good looking, I don't fukking know the guy). Tit-guy, don't cross over into the trolling category, because I like your insight. But you're blatantly taking shots for no reason now.
 

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OK since someone might think a guy considers himself good looking or a stud the question is can a guy honestly look in the mirror without ego and say to himself I look like a moron or I look like a stud?

Now for the answer to your question I haven't been dumped by any babe for the simply reason I sensed the signs that something wasnt' right and I did the walking away nice and easy or just got more busy with my hobbies and if I hear from them its cool and if I don't it's cool too, just my opinion.

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