"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Good looking guy dumped by HB7?

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DJnoob

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Ok got a questino for you good looking guys with nice bods here..So, you've gone out with good looking girls.. lets say hb8s and 9s here but i was wondering if you have been dumped by a less beautiful girl by 7s? And did you loose confidence?

I know someone will say "oh, id never go for a 7 anyway.. why should i?"

anyway, please dont troll around
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yes, I have been dumped by a 7 and a 6 back when I was shy and insecure. They still found me physically attractive, but my insecure, controlling and supplicating personality killed their attraction. One of the girls even told me this directly (which I now appreciate).

I even got rejected by a fat chick a couple of years ago because I was "too pretty" for her tastes.
 
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Jariel said:
Yes, I have been dumped by a 7 and a 6 back when I was shy and insecure. They still found me physically attractive, but my insecure, controlling and supplicating personality killed their attraction. One of the girls even told me this directly (which I now appreciate).

I even got rejected by a fat chick a couple of years ago because I was "too pretty" for her tastes.
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Fvck me dead have you started single a post in the last few months which doesnt tell us all how hot you are?

Your worse than a teenage chick desperately trying to qualify herself.

Keep it up bozo.
 
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I am guilty of talking about how hot I am too (Or at least how hot I "think" I am)... But I at least have pictures to back up my claims :p
 
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Fvck me dead have you started single a post in the last few months which doesnt tell us all how hot you are?

Your worse than a teenage chick desperately trying to qualify herself.

Keep it up bozo.
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Look at the title of the thread. The guy wanted to know if a good looking guy had been dumped by a HB7. I'm a good looking guy, I have been dumped by a HB7 so that's why I answered this post.

I've also gathered from DJNoobs posts that he is very insecure about his looks and that it's his insecurity and NOT his looks that are causing his issues with women. Again, that's how it used to be for me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jariel said:
Look at the title of the thread. The guy wanted to know if a good looking guy had been dumped by a HB7. I'm a good looking guy, I have been dumped by a HB7 so that's why I answered this post.

I've also gathered from DJNoobs posts that he is very insecure about his looks and that it's his insecurity and NOT his looks that are causing his issues with women. Again, that's how it used to be for me.
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Agreed (not about Jariel being good looking, I don't fukking know the guy). Tit-guy, don't cross over into the trolling category, because I like your insight. But you're blatantly taking shots for no reason now.
 
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OK since someone might think a guy considers himself good looking or a stud the question is can a guy honestly look in the mirror without ego and say to himself I look like a moron or I look like a stud?

Now for the answer to your question I haven't been dumped by any babe for the simply reason I sensed the signs that something wasnt' right and I did the walking away nice and easy or just got more busy with my hobbies and if I hear from them its cool and if I don't it's cool too, just my opinion.

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