"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good looking guy dumped by HB7?

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DJnoob

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Ok got a questino for you good looking guys with nice bods here..So, you've gone out with good looking girls.. lets say hb8s and 9s here but i was wondering if you have been dumped by a less beautiful girl by 7s? And did you loose confidence?

I know someone will say "oh, id never go for a 7 anyway.. why should i?"

anyway, please dont troll around
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes, I have been dumped by a 7 and a 6 back when I was shy and insecure. They still found me physically attractive, but my insecure, controlling and supplicating personality killed their attraction. One of the girls even told me this directly (which I now appreciate).

I even got rejected by a fat chick a couple of years ago because I was "too pretty" for her tastes.
 
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Jariel said:
Yes, I have been dumped by a 7 and a 6 back when I was shy and insecure. They still found me physically attractive, but my insecure, controlling and supplicating personality killed their attraction. One of the girls even told me this directly (which I now appreciate).

I even got rejected by a fat chick a couple of years ago because I was "too pretty" for her tastes.
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Fvck me dead have you started single a post in the last few months which doesnt tell us all how hot you are?

Your worse than a teenage chick desperately trying to qualify herself.

Keep it up bozo.
 
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I am guilty of talking about how hot I am too (Or at least how hot I "think" I am)... But I at least have pictures to back up my claims :p
 
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Fvck me dead have you started single a post in the last few months which doesnt tell us all how hot you are?

Your worse than a teenage chick desperately trying to qualify herself.

Keep it up bozo.
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Look at the title of the thread. The guy wanted to know if a good looking guy had been dumped by a HB7. I'm a good looking guy, I have been dumped by a HB7 so that's why I answered this post.

I've also gathered from DJNoobs posts that he is very insecure about his looks and that it's his insecurity and NOT his looks that are causing his issues with women. Again, that's how it used to be for me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jariel said:
Look at the title of the thread. The guy wanted to know if a good looking guy had been dumped by a HB7. I'm a good looking guy, I have been dumped by a HB7 so that's why I answered this post.

I've also gathered from DJNoobs posts that he is very insecure about his looks and that it's his insecurity and NOT his looks that are causing his issues with women. Again, that's how it used to be for me.
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Agreed (not about Jariel being good looking, I don't fukking know the guy). Tit-guy, don't cross over into the trolling category, because I like your insight. But you're blatantly taking shots for no reason now.
 
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OK since someone might think a guy considers himself good looking or a stud the question is can a guy honestly look in the mirror without ego and say to himself I look like a moron or I look like a stud?

Now for the answer to your question I haven't been dumped by any babe for the simply reason I sensed the signs that something wasnt' right and I did the walking away nice and easy or just got more busy with my hobbies and if I hear from them its cool and if I don't it's cool too, just my opinion.

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