This girl i like mentioned her boyfriend, who is two years younger than her. she is a year younger than me. anyway would it be a good idea to talk to her about her boyfriend. obviously it shows that iam interested in her, but would i say anything good about him or not? what would you guys do?
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Good idea to talk about her boyfriend?
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
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Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
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Dont talk about her BF.Infact if she brings it up say ``yeah thats nice`` and move on to whatever you were talking about before.
Think about it.WHY DO YOU WANT TO TALK ABOUT HER BF.Its a lose-lose situation
You praise him- you end up losing your value and raising his making her be more proud of him.
You diss him- well you lose their since she has feelings for him and you talking trash will lower your value and hurt big time.
Unless you wanna go for BF destroyers,then search it up.But for now just dont even bother because thats not what an Alpha Male would do nor would he care about her BF.
Dont talk about her BF.Infact if she brings it up say ``yeah thats nice`` and move on to whatever you were talking about before.
Think about it.WHY DO YOU WANT TO TALK ABOUT HER BF.Its a lose-lose situation
You praise him- you end up losing your value and raising his making her be more proud of him.
You diss him- well you lose their since she has feelings for him and you talking trash will lower your value and hurt big time.
Unless you wanna go for BF destroyers,then search it up.But for now just dont even bother because thats not what an Alpha Male would do nor would he care about her BF.
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bad idea
bad idea
I would never do it, PLUS if you talk (good) about him you gonna be friendly, and if you talk (bad) about him she'll think that your jealous.
So HEY wake up
you have so much to talk about. You like her "push" her to like you, and forget about her BF
So HEY wake up
you have so much to talk about. You like her "push" her to like you, and forget about her BF I disagree with all these guys. You don't have to listen to me, but it seems to me that just ignoring the boyfriend as if he was never mentioned is very AFC. What I always find works wonders for me is treating the boyfriend like a welcome addition to the conversation. Ask the girl about him and if she mentions anything good then be as happy as she is. Mention how they make a good couple. But make sure you overplay him a bit. Make it seem like he's better than he actually is, which is something that she'll take note of. But NEVER compare him to you in any respect.
I could go into so much detail about why thus works and all the techniques it utilises, but just try it. As a matter if fact I used this today on the bus and was getting some major IOIs.
I figure an AFC just ignores the boyfried, whichnis just gonna get you lands in the fried zone. A mega AFC pretends like it doesn bother him but tries to talk the bf down. An alpha male takes it straight on but doesn't let it bother him. Good for her if she has a boyfriend! Because as an alpha male you KNOW your better than him.
I could go into so much detail about why thus works and all the techniques it utilises, but just try it. As a matter if fact I used this today on the bus and was getting some major IOIs.
I figure an AFC just ignores the boyfried, whichnis just gonna get you lands in the fried zone. A mega AFC pretends like it doesn bother him but tries to talk the bf down. An alpha male takes it straight on but doesn't let it bother him. Good for her if she has a boyfriend! Because as an alpha male you KNOW your better than him.
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Try describing the perfect boyfriend. Like, um, to think something up on the spot:
G: He took me out to the cinema.
U: oh cool. Did you have a good time?
G: Oh yeah. Film was great and he took me out to dinner before.
U: Wow he sounds like a quality guy. Bet he's good at all that relationship stuff huh?
G: Yeah.
U: Makes you feel good?
G: Yep?
U: I bet he buys you flowers every day, talks to you to the fancies restaraunts all the time?
G: Well, kinda.
U: Kinda? Nah I could just picture you in one of those cutelittle housesnin thecountry with lotsa kids and..
And so on. I can't remember exactly how the convo went but basicLly the idea is to exaggerate his best features to make the girl take notice of his bad features. Shell then subconsoously compare him with you and begin to see your as the alpha male you really are.
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Also notice how in the above example I didn't mention the boyfrend straight away I waited alittle for her to continue the topic.
G: He took me out to the cinema.
U: oh cool. Did you have a good time?
G: Oh yeah. Film was great and he took me out to dinner before.
U: Wow he sounds like a quality guy. Bet he's good at all that relationship stuff huh?
G: Yeah.
U: Makes you feel good?
G: Yep?
U: I bet he buys you flowers every day, talks to you to the fancies restaraunts all the time?
G: Well, kinda.
U: Kinda? Nah I could just picture you in one of those cutelittle housesnin thecountry with lotsa kids and..
And so on. I can't remember exactly how the convo went but basicLly the idea is to exaggerate his best features to make the girl take notice of his bad features. Shell then subconsoously compare him with you and begin to see your as the alpha male you really are.
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Also notice how in the above example I didn't mention the boyfrend straight away I waited alittle for her to continue the topic.
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thats how the bf destroyer goes, as soon as this girl I like got into a rel I just told her she should marry him because he seems like a really nice guy oh yeah.. she agreed and said he was a really nice guy
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