This girl i like mentioned her boyfriend, who is two years younger than her. she is a year younger than me. anyway would it be a good idea to talk to her about her boyfriend. obviously it shows that iam interested in her, but would i say anything good about him or not? what would you guys do?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Good idea to talk about her boyfriend?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
No man.
Dont talk about her BF.Infact if she brings it up say ``yeah thats nice`` and move on to whatever you were talking about before.
Think about it.WHY DO YOU WANT TO TALK ABOUT HER BF.Its a lose-lose situation
You praise him- you end up losing your value and raising his making her be more proud of him.
You diss him- well you lose their since she has feelings for him and you talking trash will lower your value and hurt big time.
Unless you wanna go for BF destroyers,then search it up.But for now just dont even bother because thats not what an Alpha Male would do nor would he care about her BF.
Dont talk about her BF.Infact if she brings it up say ``yeah thats nice`` and move on to whatever you were talking about before.
Think about it.WHY DO YOU WANT TO TALK ABOUT HER BF.Its a lose-lose situation
You praise him- you end up losing your value and raising his making her be more proud of him.
You diss him- well you lose their since she has feelings for him and you talking trash will lower your value and hurt big time.
Unless you wanna go for BF destroyers,then search it up.But for now just dont even bother because thats not what an Alpha Male would do nor would he care about her BF.
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bad idea
bad idea
I would never do it, PLUS if you talk (good) about him you gonna be friendly, and if you talk (bad) about him she'll think that your jealous.
So HEY wake up
you have so much to talk about. You like her "push" her to like you, and forget about her BF
So HEY wake up
you have so much to talk about. You like her "push" her to like you, and forget about her BF I disagree with all these guys. You don't have to listen to me, but it seems to me that just ignoring the boyfriend as if he was never mentioned is very AFC. What I always find works wonders for me is treating the boyfriend like a welcome addition to the conversation. Ask the girl about him and if she mentions anything good then be as happy as she is. Mention how they make a good couple. But make sure you overplay him a bit. Make it seem like he's better than he actually is, which is something that she'll take note of. But NEVER compare him to you in any respect.
I could go into so much detail about why thus works and all the techniques it utilises, but just try it. As a matter if fact I used this today on the bus and was getting some major IOIs.
I figure an AFC just ignores the boyfried, whichnis just gonna get you lands in the fried zone. A mega AFC pretends like it doesn bother him but tries to talk the bf down. An alpha male takes it straight on but doesn't let it bother him. Good for her if she has a boyfriend! Because as an alpha male you KNOW your better than him.
I could go into so much detail about why thus works and all the techniques it utilises, but just try it. As a matter if fact I used this today on the bus and was getting some major IOIs.
I figure an AFC just ignores the boyfried, whichnis just gonna get you lands in the fried zone. A mega AFC pretends like it doesn bother him but tries to talk the bf down. An alpha male takes it straight on but doesn't let it bother him. Good for her if she has a boyfriend! Because as an alpha male you KNOW your better than him.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Try describing the perfect boyfriend. Like, um, to think something up on the spot:
G: He took me out to the cinema.
U: oh cool. Did you have a good time?
G: Oh yeah. Film was great and he took me out to dinner before.
U: Wow he sounds like a quality guy. Bet he's good at all that relationship stuff huh?
G: Yeah.
U: Makes you feel good?
G: Yep?
U: I bet he buys you flowers every day, talks to you to the fancies restaraunts all the time?
G: Well, kinda.
U: Kinda? Nah I could just picture you in one of those cutelittle housesnin thecountry with lotsa kids and..
And so on. I can't remember exactly how the convo went but basicLly the idea is to exaggerate his best features to make the girl take notice of his bad features. Shell then subconsoously compare him with you and begin to see your as the alpha male you really are.
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Also notice how in the above example I didn't mention the boyfrend straight away I waited alittle for her to continue the topic.
G: He took me out to the cinema.
U: oh cool. Did you have a good time?
G: Oh yeah. Film was great and he took me out to dinner before.
U: Wow he sounds like a quality guy. Bet he's good at all that relationship stuff huh?
G: Yeah.
U: Makes you feel good?
G: Yep?
U: I bet he buys you flowers every day, talks to you to the fancies restaraunts all the time?
G: Well, kinda.
U: Kinda? Nah I could just picture you in one of those cutelittle housesnin thecountry with lotsa kids and..
And so on. I can't remember exactly how the convo went but basicLly the idea is to exaggerate his best features to make the girl take notice of his bad features. Shell then subconsoously compare him with you and begin to see your as the alpha male you really are.
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Also notice how in the above example I didn't mention the boyfrend straight away I waited alittle for her to continue the topic.
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thats how the bf destroyer goes, as soon as this girl I like got into a rel I just told her she should marry him because he seems like a really nice guy oh yeah.. she agreed and said he was a really nice guy
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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