"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good girls that are dumb-worth it?

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SamMalone

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I've been dating a girl I really like. We want the same things, really get along, ect. Only problem is she is pretty stupid. Especially socially. And her stupidity has caused a few problems for me as well. So how much do I put up with before I leave? Everything else is great, but I don't want to deal with new problems because of my girls stupidity.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WaterTiger

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Stupid as in....

...has no experience in social situations?

...is a walking blond joke? (Wonders why there are W's in her M&M package)

Please define her "stupid" behavior in more detail.
 
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synergy1

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my buddys ex was sort of like this. really nice and caring, pretty hot, but dumb as a pile of bricks. Her idea of a conversation is to talk about stuff that happened to her, and that's it. She'll be a good mother and wife, but will need an equally numb husband in order to not go nuts.

It comes down to you. how much does a dumb chick get to you?
 
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The time is upon you to weigh all things carefully.

You must put her on THE SCALE OF SEIZEHER.

On one side, her hotness; on the other side, everything else under the sun.

How's she stacking up?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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