"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Good girls that are dumb-worth it?

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SamMalone

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I've been dating a girl I really like. We want the same things, really get along, ect. Only problem is she is pretty stupid. Especially socially. And her stupidity has caused a few problems for me as well. So how much do I put up with before I leave? Everything else is great, but I don't want to deal with new problems because of my girls stupidity.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Stupid as in....

...has no experience in social situations?

...is a walking blond joke? (Wonders why there are W's in her M&M package)

Please define her "stupid" behavior in more detail.
 
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synergy1

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my buddys ex was sort of like this. really nice and caring, pretty hot, but dumb as a pile of bricks. Her idea of a conversation is to talk about stuff that happened to her, and that's it. She'll be a good mother and wife, but will need an equally numb husband in order to not go nuts.

It comes down to you. how much does a dumb chick get to you?
 
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The time is upon you to weigh all things carefully.

You must put her on THE SCALE OF SEIZEHER.

On one side, her hotness; on the other side, everything else under the sun.

How's she stacking up?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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