"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good girls that are dumb-worth it?

SamMalone

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I've been dating a girl I really like. We want the same things, really get along, ect. Only problem is she is pretty stupid. Especially socially. And her stupidity has caused a few problems for me as well. So how much do I put up with before I leave? Everything else is great, but I don't want to deal with new problems because of my girls stupidity.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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WaterTiger

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Stupid as in....

...has no experience in social situations?

...is a walking blond joke? (Wonders why there are W's in her M&M package)

Please define her "stupid" behavior in more detail.
 

synergy1

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my buddys ex was sort of like this. really nice and caring, pretty hot, but dumb as a pile of bricks. Her idea of a conversation is to talk about stuff that happened to her, and that's it. She'll be a good mother and wife, but will need an equally numb husband in order to not go nuts.

It comes down to you. how much does a dumb chick get to you?
 

Julius_Seizeher

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The time is upon you to weigh all things carefully.

You must put her on THE SCALE OF SEIZEHER.

On one side, her hotness; on the other side, everything else under the sun.

How's she stacking up?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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