good follow up to the 'so what else do u have going for you?'

[pete101]

i asked this girl 'so what else do u have going for you besides your looks?'

she came back with this list of things which qualify herself but focused on her sociability stuff that makes her sound like she'd be a good girlfriend.. but to another girl! LOL

what would be a good follow up question to ask after she's given you this list?

 

[trd323]

Find the one trait that you really liked and ask her more about it.

The point is to really get to her core beliefs and build rapport frrom there by telling her stories that validate that same trait is in you.

i.e Oh you seem to hold family as a very important trait. i remember when I crashed my parents car and I was worried that I was going to be in the big trouble, but they were more concerned with my safety than the car.

 

[daygameguy]

i asked this girl 'so what else do u have going for you besides your looks?'

she came back with this list of things which qualify herself but focused on her sociability stuff that makes her sound like she'd be a good girlfriend.. but to another girl! LOL

what would be a good follow up question to ask after she's given you this list?

If a girl qualifies herself to you, you can show your interest, because it will NOT be AFC to show interest at this point.

After she gives you the list:

"You know what's wierd, when I first met you, your first impression kinda sucked to be honest , but now that I have talked to you for a while, I feel that you are really amazing, I'm actually nervous talking to you right now "

OR

"Awesome. May be we can hang out "

OR

"Put your number in my phone"

 

[pete101]

her answer was more along the lines of.. 'well i'm smart and a good friend and really sociable and never stab anyone in the back and never cause any drama'

not exactly qualifying herself to me if u see what i mean..

what would be a better follow up if she says the above?

 

[pete101]

is there one?