"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good follow up dates? For optimal progression?

Mr. Focus

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So what do you guys usually do for a 2nd and 3rd date? (I'm 20 if that matters).

Looking for a date that creates optimal progression towards banging.

My first date was a cup of coffee, walk around the city, initiate kino, sit in the park and go for the kiss. Went well.

Been 2 days, now time to call and set a 2nd date, just dunno what.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Billtx49

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I usually wait 3-5 days and set up a drink or fun date for following week.
She needs some time to wonder if you’re really interested in her.
If it’s a yes, she’s interested in you also.
 
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