Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Good follow up dates? For optimal progression?

Mr. Focus

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So what do you guys usually do for a 2nd and 3rd date? (I'm 20 if that matters).

Looking for a date that creates optimal progression towards banging.

My first date was a cup of coffee, walk around the city, initiate kino, sit in the park and go for the kiss. Went well.

Been 2 days, now time to call and set a 2nd date, just dunno what.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Billtx49

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I usually wait 3-5 days and set up a drink or fun date for following week.
She needs some time to wonder if you’re really interested in her.
If it’s a yes, she’s interested in you also.
 
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