"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good follow up dates? For optimal progression?

Mr. Focus

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So what do you guys usually do for a 2nd and 3rd date? (I'm 20 if that matters).

Looking for a date that creates optimal progression towards banging.

My first date was a cup of coffee, walk around the city, initiate kino, sit in the park and go for the kiss. Went well.

Been 2 days, now time to call and set a 2nd date, just dunno what.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I usually wait 3-5 days and set up a drink or fun date for following week.
She needs some time to wonder if you’re really interested in her.
If it’s a yes, she’s interested in you also.
 
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