"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good first date with a chick from class?

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Well i got her #, she actually offered it to me and siad i should call her if i need help with the homework.

quick run down of this chick: she dresses conservative, cute, not really quiet,aks me to sit with her, gave me a compliment on my haircut. I didnt even try talking to her until she was so open to talk to me.

I was just about to call her to set something up.Im thinking a night date would be too awkward right away, whats a good thing to do during the day, maybe we should just meet at school and get something to eat outside there?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
Well i got her #, she actually offered it to me and siad i should call her if i need help with the homework.

quick run down of this chick: she dresses conservative, cute, not really quiet,aks me to sit with her, gave me a compliment on my haircut. I didnt even try talking to her until she was so open to talk to me.

I was just about to call her to set something up.Im thinking a night date would be too awkward right away, whats a good thing to do during the day, maybe we should just meet at school and get something to eat outside there?
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I would take her to breakfast. Just tell her you want to go somewhere and take her. Personally I would not say it was a date just a get together.
 
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the less you think about it the better off you are.
 
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gimmeyofonenumba said:
Im thinking a night date would be too awkward right away, whats a good thing to do during the day, maybe we should just meet at school and get something to eat outside there?
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Awkward is a good thing.

You don't want her to be too comfortable around you other wise all you are going to get is a study buddy. Just ask her to give you some help on your homework in a coffee shop close to a good bar, so when you are done studying and you are getting better vibes from her then you ask her to join you for a drink nearby.
 
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