"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Good first date with a chick from class?

gimmeyofonenumba

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Well i got her #, she actually offered it to me and siad i should call her if i need help with the homework.

quick run down of this chick: she dresses conservative, cute, not really quiet,aks me to sit with her, gave me a compliment on my haircut. I didnt even try talking to her until she was so open to talk to me.

I was just about to call her to set something up.Im thinking a night date would be too awkward right away, whats a good thing to do during the day, maybe we should just meet at school and get something to eat outside there?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chosen1

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
Well i got her #, she actually offered it to me and siad i should call her if i need help with the homework.

quick run down of this chick: she dresses conservative, cute, not really quiet,aks me to sit with her, gave me a compliment on my haircut. I didnt even try talking to her until she was so open to talk to me.

I was just about to call her to set something up.Im thinking a night date would be too awkward right away, whats a good thing to do during the day, maybe we should just meet at school and get something to eat outside there?
I would take her to breakfast. Just tell her you want to go somewhere and take her. Personally I would not say it was a date just a get together.
 

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the less you think about it the better off you are.
 

DJDamage

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
Im thinking a night date would be too awkward right away, whats a good thing to do during the day, maybe we should just meet at school and get something to eat outside there?
Awkward is a good thing.

You don't want her to be too comfortable around you other wise all you are going to get is a study buddy. Just ask her to give you some help on your homework in a coffee shop close to a good bar, so when you are done studying and you are getting better vibes from her then you ask her to join you for a drink nearby.
 
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