"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Good first date with a chick from class?

gimmeyofonenumba

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Well i got her #, she actually offered it to me and siad i should call her if i need help with the homework.

quick run down of this chick: she dresses conservative, cute, not really quiet,aks me to sit with her, gave me a compliment on my haircut. I didnt even try talking to her until she was so open to talk to me.

I was just about to call her to set something up.Im thinking a night date would be too awkward right away, whats a good thing to do during the day, maybe we should just meet at school and get something to eat outside there?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Chosen1

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
Well i got her #, she actually offered it to me and siad i should call her if i need help with the homework.

quick run down of this chick: she dresses conservative, cute, not really quiet,aks me to sit with her, gave me a compliment on my haircut. I didnt even try talking to her until she was so open to talk to me.

I was just about to call her to set something up.Im thinking a night date would be too awkward right away, whats a good thing to do during the day, maybe we should just meet at school and get something to eat outside there?
I would take her to breakfast. Just tell her you want to go somewhere and take her. Personally I would not say it was a date just a get together.
 

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the less you think about it the better off you are.
 

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
Im thinking a night date would be too awkward right away, whats a good thing to do during the day, maybe we should just meet at school and get something to eat outside there?
Awkward is a good thing.

You don't want her to be too comfortable around you other wise all you are going to get is a study buddy. Just ask her to give you some help on your homework in a coffee shop close to a good bar, so when you are done studying and you are getting better vibes from her then you ask her to join you for a drink nearby.
 
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