MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
HeHeHe. No, even worse I think two women wrote it lol.bigjohnson said:Did LMS write this paper?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
'insidious said:If anything, feminists would have to face the fact that in
the profession of prostitution, the famed "glass ceiling" is
reversed with women making much more than men.
Shhhh.....you might kill the romanceRollo Tomassi said:As I've posted on many times before, but it bears repeating, as a Man you will ALWAYS pay for sex in some way. You may finance it, you may buy it retail, you might rent it and you might just beat off to the advertising, but rest assured, you WILL pay.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's great stuff, but for the most part no one wants to think about this stuff. Some people know it, quite a few divorced guys suspect it in a really angry and bitter way, but almost no one wants to just accept it for what it is without anger or other emotions.ketostix said:HeHeHe. No, even worse I think two women wrote it lol.
Rollo Tomassi said:As I've posted on many times before, but it bears repeating, as a Man you will ALWAYS pay for sex in some way. You may finance it, you may buy it retail, you might rent it and you might just beat off to the advertising, but rest assured, you WILL pay.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I totally, 100% agree with you. It's truly a shame that it's illegal in virtually every state(except Nevada of course). I really can't understand why. It doesn't make sense. As long as the woman is tested and practices safe sex(condoms, birth control, etc.).steve38 said:I sincerely believe that if prostitution was affordable, accessible, and most importantly, socially acceptable to all males that the world would be a better place. Divorce rate much lower, women not as powerful, guys having options etc.
Wow, I didn't know that. That's news to me.KontrollerX said:She said months and years prior to her death that she feared she would be "suicided" and she also made it clear that if she were ever found dead it would be murder despite any official claims.
So yeah I'm pretty much running with the theory that some powerful scum had her eliminated.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.