MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
HeHeHe. No, even worse I think two women wrote it lol.bigjohnson said:Did LMS write this paper?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
'insidious said:If anything, feminists would have to face the fact that in
the profession of prostitution, the famed "glass ceiling" is
reversed with women making much more than men.
Shhhh.....you might kill the romanceRollo Tomassi said:As I've posted on many times before, but it bears repeating, as a Man you will ALWAYS pay for sex in some way. You may finance it, you may buy it retail, you might rent it and you might just beat off to the advertising, but rest assured, you WILL pay.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It's great stuff, but for the most part no one wants to think about this stuff. Some people know it, quite a few divorced guys suspect it in a really angry and bitter way, but almost no one wants to just accept it for what it is without anger or other emotions.ketostix said:HeHeHe. No, even worse I think two women wrote it lol.
Rollo Tomassi said:As I've posted on many times before, but it bears repeating, as a Man you will ALWAYS pay for sex in some way. You may finance it, you may buy it retail, you might rent it and you might just beat off to the advertising, but rest assured, you WILL pay.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I totally, 100% agree with you. It's truly a shame that it's illegal in virtually every state(except Nevada of course). I really can't understand why. It doesn't make sense. As long as the woman is tested and practices safe sex(condoms, birth control, etc.).steve38 said:I sincerely believe that if prostitution was affordable, accessible, and most importantly, socially acceptable to all males that the world would be a better place. Divorce rate much lower, women not as powerful, guys having options etc.
Wow, I didn't know that. That's news to me.KontrollerX said:She said months and years prior to her death that she feared she would be "suicided" and she also made it clear that if she were ever found dead it would be murder despite any official claims.
So yeah I'm pretty much running with the theory that some powerful scum had her eliminated.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.