"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GOOD DAY #3, two incedence

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Now before i post theses, for the jackasses that cant read anything but perfect spelling and junk!, im sorry im just writing down exactly what the notes, yes NOTES, say. OK so i was sitting down in Religon class (Private School, ima shopmore) and the teacher pops in a movie, VERY BORING...

So a couple mins later, this girl gives me a note that said:

HB: Is this a great movie or what?
ME: You just can't resist hitting on me HUH! and havent even given me your number
HB: I dont hit on anyone ( I really dont have to) and you havent asked.

( Another Girl passed me a not while i was writing to this other girl, so it was good! i was making her wait for my response)

But so i dont confuse you guys, i was finish this note first.....

ME: You'd better hurry, I dont know how many more numbers my phone can hold. (it only holds 250 I think)

Then there was the other note that this girl gave me,

HB: OMG SPURGEON!, we both have on black shirts thats way cool! (heart) ashlie
ME: I know! Are you Stalking me? ; You wouldn;t be the first...lol <=(shoulda left that lol out)
HB: hahahaha nop I cant say I am SORRY! YOUR STALKING ME! but I cant blame you I am queen hahahahah

I meet up with this girl later on that day! and we had some good laughs, and i got her number!, hope you guys day went good too......
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by E_ze05
Now before i post theses, for the jackasses that cant read anything but perfect spelling and junk!, im sorry im just writing down exactly what the notes, yes NOTES, say. OK so i was sitting down in Religon class (Private School, ima shopmore) and the teacher pops in a movie, VERY BORING...

So a couple mins later, this girl gives me a note that said:

HB: Is this a great movie or what?
ME: You just can't resist hitting on me HUH! and havent even given me your number
HB: I dont hit on anyone ( I really dont have to) and you havent asked.

( Another Girl passed me a not while i was writing to this other gitl

I like your C&F use..very classic. Did u end up getting both of their numbers?



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sorry bout that man! i posted early on accident, but i edited it all in! thats all that happened right there!
 

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Now i understand lol I thought i was on crack or something. yeah i agree the "lol" shoulda been left out but i dont think it even made a diff. They both dig u in the first place to even write a note to you. Good job......kinda ironic its in religion class



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For everybody that doesnt know! SmoothPlayer is off the chain! Finally someone cool (like me) and not a jackass! lets keep the post positive lol, you do anything better in a good mood! so why bring yourself and others down?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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