"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GOOD DAY #3, two incedence

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Now before i post theses, for the jackasses that cant read anything but perfect spelling and junk!, im sorry im just writing down exactly what the notes, yes NOTES, say. OK so i was sitting down in Religon class (Private School, ima shopmore) and the teacher pops in a movie, VERY BORING...

So a couple mins later, this girl gives me a note that said:

HB: Is this a great movie or what?
ME: You just can't resist hitting on me HUH! and havent even given me your number
HB: I dont hit on anyone ( I really dont have to) and you havent asked.

( Another Girl passed me a not while i was writing to this other girl, so it was good! i was making her wait for my response)

But so i dont confuse you guys, i was finish this note first.....

ME: You'd better hurry, I dont know how many more numbers my phone can hold. (it only holds 250 I think)

Then there was the other note that this girl gave me,

HB: OMG SPURGEON!, we both have on black shirts thats way cool! (heart) ashlie
ME: I know! Are you Stalking me? ; You wouldn;t be the first...lol <=(shoulda left that lol out)
HB: hahahaha nop I cant say I am SORRY! YOUR STALKING ME! but I cant blame you I am queen hahahahah

I meet up with this girl later on that day! and we had some good laughs, and i got her number!, hope you guys day went good too......
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by E_ze05
Now before i post theses, for the jackasses that cant read anything but perfect spelling and junk!, im sorry im just writing down exactly what the notes, yes NOTES, say. OK so i was sitting down in Religon class (Private School, ima shopmore) and the teacher pops in a movie, VERY BORING...

So a couple mins later, this girl gives me a note that said:

HB: Is this a great movie or what?
ME: You just can't resist hitting on me HUH! and havent even given me your number
HB: I dont hit on anyone ( I really dont have to) and you havent asked.

( Another Girl passed me a not while i was writing to this other gitl

I like your C&F use..very classic. Did u end up getting both of their numbers?



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sorry bout that man! i posted early on accident, but i edited it all in! thats all that happened right there!
 

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Now i understand lol I thought i was on crack or something. yeah i agree the "lol" shoulda been left out but i dont think it even made a diff. They both dig u in the first place to even write a note to you. Good job......kinda ironic its in religion class



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For everybody that doesnt know! SmoothPlayer is off the chain! Finally someone cool (like me) and not a jackass! lets keep the post positive lol, you do anything better in a good mood! so why bring yourself and others down?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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