"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good date ideas?

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Does anyone have any good date ideas? I am on a university campus-so cannot really travel beyong the campus. Preferably something other than traditional coffee or dinner dates, as I am not a very talkative guy especially on first dates.

Currently my arsenal is as follows: cheap student rock concerts, plays, movies, playing sports, stand up comedy shows.

I hear Action Dates are meant to be a good idea, but my idea of action is pumping iron, boxing and playing rugby and the sort of girls who would willingly go in for that sort of stuff are usually behind bars.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You might wish to try searching for answers, as this question has been asked and answered no less than 300 times.
 
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Sorry, very lazy of me. Thanks The Bishop. Will have a good look.
 
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Date ideas:

Any place where you're alone and are not bothered by walker bys. If it has a sturdy horisontal surface of some sort, it helps usually :D

If you can't have fun in a setting like this, you can "date" endlessly but you won't get to fvck.
 
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