"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Good date ideas?

Matt Rogers

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Does anyone have any good date ideas? I am on a university campus-so cannot really travel beyong the campus. Preferably something other than traditional coffee or dinner dates, as I am not a very talkative guy especially on first dates.

Currently my arsenal is as follows: cheap student rock concerts, plays, movies, playing sports, stand up comedy shows.

I hear Action Dates are meant to be a good idea, but my idea of action is pumping iron, boxing and playing rugby and the sort of girls who would willingly go in for that sort of stuff are usually behind bars.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You might wish to try searching for answers, as this question has been asked and answered no less than 300 times.
 

Matt Rogers

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Sorry, very lazy of me. Thanks The Bishop. Will have a good look.
 

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Date ideas:

Any place where you're alone and are not bothered by walker bys. If it has a sturdy horisontal surface of some sort, it helps usually :D

If you can't have fun in a setting like this, you can "date" endlessly but you won't get to fvck.
 
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