"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Matt Rogers

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Does anyone have any good date ideas? I am on a university campus-so cannot really travel beyong the campus. Preferably something other than traditional coffee or dinner dates, as I am not a very talkative guy especially on first dates.

Currently my arsenal is as follows: cheap student rock concerts, plays, movies, playing sports, stand up comedy shows.

I hear Action Dates are meant to be a good idea, but my idea of action is pumping iron, boxing and playing rugby and the sort of girls who would willingly go in for that sort of stuff are usually behind bars.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You might wish to try searching for answers, as this question has been asked and answered no less than 300 times.
 
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Matt Rogers

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Sorry, very lazy of me. Thanks The Bishop. Will have a good look.
 
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Date ideas:

Any place where you're alone and are not bothered by walker bys. If it has a sturdy horisontal surface of some sort, it helps usually :D

If you can't have fun in a setting like this, you can "date" endlessly but you won't get to fvck.
 
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