"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I have plans on taking a hip hop class. Anyone have any experience taking a few classes. are there any other forms of dance you would recommend and why
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'd personally recommend taking salsa classes. It's a lot of kino and goofing around with girls, and you learn a dance that let's you practice your leading / dominant skills and something simple enough to learn a girl in 5 minutes.
 

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Salsa is good! But strangely the numbers I got from salsa class were all flakes. Dunno why, because everybody liked dancing with me :)
 

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Anytime of ballroom dancing. In most of these the guy not only leads but has to control which direction both you and the girl are dancing WITHOUT talking and only body movement and arm placement. I recommend starting with waltz because it is easy to learn and easy to teach to girls.
 

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ArcBound said:
Anytime of ballroom dancing. In most of these the guy not only leads but has to control which direction both you and the girl are dancing WITHOUT talking and only body movement and arm placement. I recommend starting with waltz because it is easy to learn and easy to teach to girls.
Depends which Waltz you're referring to. If you're talking about an English Waltz, then I'd say: Basic steps are ok, but it requires a lot of training to make it look good. If you're referring to the classical Vienna Waltz, then no. That dance is permanently turning and switching direction, throwing most people off in extreme dizzyness really quick.

I've danced ballroom / latin for 10 years now, with a 3 year break, and I've done some salsa. If you wanna show off some quick moves, salsa is the way to go. If you want to learn to do a bit more dancing that actually looks really good, go for ballroom / latin.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SandHawk said:
Depends which Waltz you're referring to. If you're talking about an English Waltz, then I'd say: Basic steps are ok, but it requires a lot of training to make it look good. If you're referring to the classical Vienna Waltz, then no.
True, but you don't need to master it to have fun with it and teach other girls which I've actually done when girls learned I knew ballroom dancing. Vienna Waltz is hard, I tried a year of it but you can't just do a Vienna Waltz with anyone only other people trained in it.

TBH I've tried a lot of ballroom dances but not really salsa, would you say its your favorite?
 

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Salsa + Ballroom Dancing == Chick Magnet.
 

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f283000 said:
I don't think you getting flaked on has anything to do with Salsa but more to do with your game than anything else.
Haha, probably true ;) I was just so surprised because at the class they seemed super interested and dancing really close, and were eager to give their numbers... I also made sure none saw me taking the number of another... well nevermind hehe
 
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