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Don Juan
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I have plans on taking a hip hop class. Anyone have any experience taking a few classes. are there any other forms of dance you would recommend and why
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Depends which Waltz you're referring to. If you're talking about an English Waltz, then I'd say: Basic steps are ok, but it requires a lot of training to make it look good. If you're referring to the classical Vienna Waltz, then no. That dance is permanently turning and switching direction, throwing most people off in extreme dizzyness really quick.ArcBound said:Anytime of ballroom dancing. In most of these the guy not only leads but has to control which direction both you and the girl are dancing WITHOUT talking and only body movement and arm placement. I recommend starting with waltz because it is easy to learn and easy to teach to girls.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I don't think you getting flaked on has anything to do with Salsa but more to do with your game than anything else.Huffman said:Salsa is good! But strangely the numbers I got from salsa class were all flakes. Dunno why, because everybody liked dancing with me![]()
True, but you don't need to master it to have fun with it and teach other girls which I've actually done when girls learned I knew ballroom dancing. Vienna Waltz is hard, I tried a year of it but you can't just do a Vienna Waltz with anyone only other people trained in it.SandHawk said:Depends which Waltz you're referring to. If you're talking about an English Waltz, then I'd say: Basic steps are ok, but it requires a lot of training to make it look good. If you're referring to the classical Vienna Waltz, then no.
Haha, probably truef283000 said:I don't think you getting flaked on has anything to do with Salsa but more to do with your game than anything else.