CoolRunning
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So...your recommendations?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Good "come over and watch a movie" movies?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
WC2
Master Don Juan
First of all movies, should only be done once in awhile (every 7-8 dates max). You really can't go wrong with a movie if you are a DJ... it's not about the movie it's about you and her. If you are relying on a movie to bring you two together, then you're hopeless. Sometimes it's a good idea to get a movie you know a lot about (enlighten her with something you know).
Wubbman
Don Juan
"Platoon" by Oliver Stone. It will work everytime.
In all seriousness, I would find out what type of movies she likes. You don't necessarily need to watch chick flicks everytime, but I think comedies would be popular with most women. Romantic comedies mixed in with action comedies seems like a winner.
In all seriousness, I would find out what type of movies she likes. You don't necessarily need to watch chick flicks everytime, but I think comedies would be popular with most women. Romantic comedies mixed in with action comedies seems like a winner.
chaosphere
Don Juan
Concert DVDs have been a staple in my repetoire for years.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Movies are for kids!!!! Oh yeah, you are kids!!!
I guess in-home movies have become the modern hor excuse to be alone with her pimp!! Hors know this and they are expecting the pimp to make the move that he has been genetically wired to do!!
I'll bet you that when she comes over to your place that her panties match her bra!!!! Hors know what is going to happen!! Any takers???
I guess in-home movies have become the modern hor excuse to be alone with her pimp!! Hors know this and they are expecting the pimp to make the move that he has been genetically wired to do!!
I'll bet you that when she comes over to your place that her panties match her bra!!!! Hors know what is going to happen!! Any takers???
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CoolRunning said:
New wave hookers II.
Catchy flick and some decent acting.
In my honest opinion, try to make sure its a bad movie. You don't want something very engrossing or you'll have a harder time phase-shifting into intimacy. All the movie is is a pre-text for isolation anyway. If she wants to be alone with you, she'll take the bait, no matter how terrible the movie is.
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
I agree.
I got away with watching movies like American Psycho and Requiem For A Dream.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I avoid movies unless we're already intimate. Trying to use a movie to get a woman in the mood who isn't already into you via a movie is usually a fools errand.
I have found that watching some of the "reality shows" such as the Real World helps as a catalyst to find out about your girl and what drives her. Shows like that is a emotional time bomb not only for the actors but also for most people who watch the show.
Watch your girl to see how she reacts to the show and listen to what she says. Notice when she sits back and crosses her arms, notice when she sits on the edge of the couch listening intently. These are signs of what ticks her off and what inspires her respectively.
Finally, if you really want to get into her head, during the commercials ask her "So what do you think about that?" Most times she'll tell you in no uncertain terms. The problem would just be getting her to stop.
I have found that watching some of the "reality shows" such as the Real World helps as a catalyst to find out about your girl and what drives her. Shows like that is a emotional time bomb not only for the actors but also for most people who watch the show.
Watch your girl to see how she reacts to the show and listen to what she says. Notice when she sits back and crosses her arms, notice when she sits on the edge of the couch listening intently. These are signs of what ticks her off and what inspires her respectively.
Finally, if you really want to get into her head, during the commercials ask her "So what do you think about that?" Most times she'll tell you in no uncertain terms. The problem would just be getting her to stop.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.