"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good College Dates when you can’t Drink

nicksaiz65

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I was under the impression that most of you guys took girls out to bars and got a round of drinks or two for your dates. However, I’m going to be taking some 19-20 year old girls out. Any fun date ideas?

I’ve thought of coffee, playing table tennis, Netflix, going hiking, things like that. Any suggestions would be welcome, though.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Might as well take them to church...

Girls that age like to party.... Get some pot....
 

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College girls want to experiment with alcohol and sex just like their male counterparts do. Memorize that and let it drive your actions…
 

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Yeah, I agree. I have laid chicks before from basic dates like this but I always felt like they were never “edgy” enough. It’ll be a lot easier to smoke when I have my own place and vehicle also.
 
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