"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good Books to read?

KidwithSocks

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Hi i am in college right now and i want to better myself.
I was just wondering is there any good books i can read to better myself that you guys recommend?
I have bought How to Win Friends & Influence People from a recommendation from a thread i read here, is there any else? :]
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene

The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar

The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene

Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins

Its not what happens to you its what you do about it by W. Mitchell

You really don't need anymore than those.
 

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Thank you. Oh i found a website that lets you view most books.. is it allowed to post up?
 

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Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins,
Tony Robbins or Anthony Robbins?
pdf-search-engine[dot]com
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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War Against Betaism

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How To Make Great Conversation And Small Talk by Sean McPheat.
 

KidwithSocks

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ah. thanks DJCoreleone for the thread, i searched "books" and came up with whole list of random threads, made my day easier :]

That sounds like what i need to read, thank you War Againts Betaism.

turns out the link i put on my previous post doesn't have all the books you have listed =( guess i have to look harder or buy the books :-[
 

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Don't go over the top with reading material though, it's way to easy to get an information overload, much of which won't help you. I've read the 48 laws and it was an interesting book, but good luck applying it effectively to your life.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Start with The Cat in the Hat and work you way up to the rest. Maybe try How the Grinch Stole Christmas since it is that time of year.
 
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