"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good Books to read?

KidwithSocks

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Hi i am in college right now and i want to better myself.
I was just wondering is there any good books i can read to better myself that you guys recommend?
I have bought How to Win Friends & Influence People from a recommendation from a thread i read here, is there any else? :]
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene

The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar

The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene

Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins

Its not what happens to you its what you do about it by W. Mitchell

You really don't need anymore than those.
 

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Thank you. Oh i found a website that lets you view most books.. is it allowed to post up?
 

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Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins,
Tony Robbins or Anthony Robbins?
pdf-search-engine[dot]com
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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War Against Betaism

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How To Make Great Conversation And Small Talk by Sean McPheat.
 

KidwithSocks

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ah. thanks DJCoreleone for the thread, i searched "books" and came up with whole list of random threads, made my day easier :]

That sounds like what i need to read, thank you War Againts Betaism.

turns out the link i put on my previous post doesn't have all the books you have listed =( guess i have to look harder or buy the books :-[
 

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Don't go over the top with reading material though, it's way to easy to get an information overload, much of which won't help you. I've read the 48 laws and it was an interesting book, but good luck applying it effectively to your life.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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Start with The Cat in the Hat and work you way up to the rest. Maybe try How the Grinch Stole Christmas since it is that time of year.
 
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