"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Good Books to read?

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Hi i am in college right now and i want to better myself.
I was just wondering is there any good books i can read to better myself that you guys recommend?
I have bought How to Win Friends & Influence People from a recommendation from a thread i read here, is there any else? :]
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene

The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar

The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene

Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins

Its not what happens to you its what you do about it by W. Mitchell

You really don't need anymore than those.
 
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Thank you. Oh i found a website that lets you view most books.. is it allowed to post up?
 
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Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins,
Tony Robbins or Anthony Robbins?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How To Make Great Conversation And Small Talk by Sean McPheat.
 
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ah. thanks DJCoreleone for the thread, i searched "books" and came up with whole list of random threads, made my day easier :]

That sounds like what i need to read, thank you War Againts Betaism.

turns out the link i put on my previous post doesn't have all the books you have listed =( guess i have to look harder or buy the books :-[
 
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Don't go over the top with reading material though, it's way to easy to get an information overload, much of which won't help you. I've read the 48 laws and it was an interesting book, but good luck applying it effectively to your life.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Start with The Cat in the Hat and work you way up to the rest. Maybe try How the Grinch Stole Christmas since it is that time of year.
 
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