KneghtRyder
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
good article: Do Women Really Want to be Friends First?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
good article and surmises my way of going after women. I come in as a person trying to make a genuine human relationship, and if I deem her worthy of a relationship it is time to make her jump the hoops. If she manages to jump the hoops, which 90% of women don't make it through (long term relationship with a brain and her own opinions). Then I will give her a relationships, while the rest are good for sex or a friendship and that is it.
comic_relief
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penkitten
Master Don Juan
i didnt read the article but i wanted to offer this anyhow:
we just want you to be friendly.
there is a big difference between friends and being friendly before you start dating.
we just want you to be friendly.
there is a big difference between friends and being friendly before you start dating.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
"Friends first" is essentially a way of discouraging clueless fellows from making unwelcome moves.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
knglerxt
Senior Don Juan
"On the other hand, she won't go up to a stranger and ask for sex, because a stranger could very well be dangerous."
I don't agree with this part of the article. I think the main reason women don't do this is the fact that it's not socially acceptable behavior. Heck, 99% of the men out there won't even go up to a strange woman and ask for sex. It's just not something that people do.
I don't agree with this part of the article. I think the main reason women don't do this is the fact that it's not socially acceptable behavior. Heck, 99% of the men out there won't even go up to a strange woman and ask for sex. It's just not something that people do.
Serialized3
Master Don Juan
Most of the "seduction information" relating to friendships and sex is really dated. That sh!t might have applied to 30 year old women in the 90's, but this is 2007. Young women have sex with their friends all the time these days.
Serialized3
Master Don Juan
I'm pretty much the same way. I feel it's best just to try to enjoy a person for who they are, rather than objectifying them into some role or expectation. And you know what's up when it comes to sex with girls that respect you and know you for who you really are.comic_relief said:
Props man. Good to see another fellow who gets it.
