"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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good advice anyone??

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Hey there...this is my first post, so let me introduce myself...Hi I'm kenny. That's been my nickname for years. Anyways on with my prob.

I am young, in good shape, have a sweet job, cool friends..I guess you could say I got my **** together. Except for one thing WOMEN. Sure I've landed some hotties, everyone gets lucky once and a while right?? Well thats exactly what it is, luck. Yeah I'll say it again LUCK. When a guy walks around without a clue about what it takes to attract women thats exactly what it is. It doesn't matter how good looking you may be, or how smart you are, or even how much money you have. Sure those things will definately help but only if your willing to assert yourself by being BOLD and CONFIDENT.

I used to be that guy who didn't have a clue. Over the last 5 to 6 months I have studied everything under the sun on what it takes to get the women I want. I've read it all from mystery method, to kevin bates.

I was in the game until I went exclusive with a girlfriend. Now we are broken up and I can't seem to get back in the game. Got any solid advice on how to overcome fear of approaches?? Thats my biggest obstacle, and obviously a very important one. I want to be able to approach every hottie I see and "unleash" myself upon her. Only when I try I freeze and all the stuff Iv'e learned turns to mush. Any stategies you used would be great...drop in a message and let me know.

~kenny
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Stop taking the victim role and take charge.

Assume the woman you are talking to likes you.
 
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flexion_ said:
Stop taking the victim role and take charge.

Assume the woman you are talking to likes you.
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Words of wisdom.

You know why approaching 10s doesn't phase me? Not because I have laid a few of them, but because they are actually easier to approach. Think about it. Girls of high calibur rarely get approaches from men. Most men are afraid of that killer chick. The chances of her replying in a positive way is VERY high. Now, keep that in your mind at all times and approach some 10s. See for yourself.
 
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